Defining “Gifted”
Almost every parent thinks his child is gifted. I know I do. I bore my friends with stories of how my three-year-old corrects his dad’s pronunciation of dinosaur names and how he knows all the names of the months. Let’s face it. Kids are brilliant, and they know how to find the soft spots in our hearts.
As responsible parents, we also want our children to have all the opportunities to succeed academically and beyond. This has led to a new trend for toddlers. If you have the money, you can enroll your child in test prep and tutoring for four-year-olds.
The New York Times recently ran an article investigating this hot trend. With the fierce competition for acceptance into gifted programs, many parents have turned to programs that will give their kids an advantage over other pre-kindergarten students.
According to the article, Bige Doruk opened Bright Kids NYC in 2009 to help kids prepare:
She runs a two-month ‘boot camp’ for the gifted test in the fall that includes eight one-on-one 45-minute sessions and two test-prep books for $1,075.
The demand, Doruk says, continues to increase.
As a parent, I understand the urge to give my (brilliant) kid every opportunity that money can buy, I have to ask myself if the test is actually evaluating how gifted a child actually is. Instead, it seems we’re testing knowledge which, in my book, is a totally different game. Perhaps we’re testing how much money parents are willing to spend to get their children into a good school, leaving those without the means in an inequitable situation.
At ODYSSEYWARE, we believe that every student should be given every advantage necessary to compete and excel academically. With customizable online curriculum that can accommodate the learning styles of gifted students as well as those at-risk, students can begin at the appropriate place, and accelerate through the courses at a pace that works for them. This levels the playing field for many kids who haven’t had all the advantages but want to succeed.
Early learning is important for kids. The learning gap seems to widen every day as wealth, not ability, determines what is “gifted.” In addition, when children become test scores instead of living, breathing, brilliant, and curious little learners, we are passing over some of the best and the brightest, and this costs our entire society.